(Michael Maardt, 2022)
I have met and heard about a certain type of women in the "New Age" environment, the alternative environment and/or in the environment of "freedom fighters". They have adopted beliefs over the past many years. I can imagine that certain dark spiritual beings have been at play again and have instilled them in so-called influencers on the Internet, whom these women like to follow or listen to. In the same way that New Age religion was introduced as an extension of the youth rebellion.
It is about these women having been seduced into misunderstanding an aspect of the ability to love, which is often called empathy. They mistakenly believe that the best thing is to BE your feelings as much as possible. Unfortunately, this is a total misunderstanding. Reference: The fine text Right Use of Will by DeRohan
God has given us 'feelings', but there are two kinds of 'feelings': 1) emotions belonging to the solar plexus energy center (chakra) and 2) actual feelings, belonging to the heart chakra. Unfortunately, these energies are mixed in the women mentioned. They are unable to distinguish between these energies/feelings because they still have many unprocessed and unresolved elements in their unconscious mind (the reactive mind).
Many of these women have identified so much with their 'compassionate' feelings for others that they have almost shifted their own focus/presence to these people. They have therefore made a transfer of aspects of their own identity. This results in, among other things, that they 'give too much of themselves to others', they are excessively interested in the lives of others, they would very much like to 'help' others by suggesting how they should live their lives, while their own lives actually need this care. In psychology this is called a projection (ref. C. G. Jung and Jes Bertelsen).
These women lose a part of themselves. They lose some grounding and become even more vulnerable than they were before. It doesn't take much before they 'feel' hurt, violated, etc. They have often been hurt and violated earlier in their lives, and these elements of the psyche (the unconscious or reactive mind) are easily re-stimulated in such situations.
The erroneous perception of the relationship between emotions and feelings has led to these women not feeling really at home in themselves, because they are constantly 'over in others'.
We have been given by God the conscious mind, reason and intellect, to use these to DISCERN. This quality based on sensations, intuition etc. is the right use of will.
Our conscious mind is our supreme guide (navigator). Emotions or feelings are NOT our highest/supreme guide. They are the foundation stones that we USE with our conscious mind to discern, to choose, to navigate. Many of these women do it the other way around. They set up the EMOTIONS or FEELINGS as the supreme guide, and this causes emotional and mental confusion, because this method/tactic greatly opens up the restimulation of old unresolved traumas. I have met women who almost seek out negative feelings such as being rejected, hurt or violated in an attempt to EXPERIENCE being "more alive". They are very tearful, cry a lot and believe that letting the reactive mind get the better of them helps.
It's like pissing your pants. It warms you up for a moment, but then gets cold again. The inner turmoil, the confusion, quickly reappears, and the person longs like another emotional junkie for the next fix, and so the person's emotional life runs in a loop. You break this vicious circle by making your reactive mind work. This can be psychotherapy, auditing or the like.
It tends towards masochism. It is a misunderstood use of emotions.